Profile

Add this user to your friends list  To-Do List  Memories:  Tell a Friend!  Search This Journal  Nudge This Friend
User:electrifyingirl (12574854) Paid User
Our hopes and expectations...
....black holes and revelations
Name:Mother of 2 ♥
Text
Message
:
Send electrifyingirl a text message
on his/her cellphone/pager.
Website:My[space].
Location:anyone lived in a pretty how town, Illinois, United States
Birthdate:1980-11-05
Bio:
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

It's a beginning of a new age...


Twenty-seven. Female. Scorpio. Liberal Democrat. Recovering Catholic (i.e., recovering *from* Catholicism, not "returning home" or any of that nonsense). Pro-choice. Veggie. Former adjunct professor at several community colleges. SAHM. :-) Blissfully married to an incredible firefighter/paramedic. Mother of an amazing baby boy and a beautiful baby girl. Inked and pierced, with constant plans to get more. Changes hair color/style constantly. A work in progress...always.

You should know this: I have a lot of love to give.

My sweet baby boy:
Aidan Michael * May 1, 2006 * 4:10 PM * 9 lbs, 3 oz * 22 in


Lilypie 3rd Birthday Ticker

Edited (in February 2007) to add: we are expecting again...but no, I'm not pregnant. ;-) We are currently in the process of adopting a baby girl from Guatemala and are absolutely THRILLED about it! xoxo Edited again on March 22, 2007: We received our referral! My gorgeous daughter took her first breath on March 14, 2007--I'm a mother for a second time now!

My beautiful baby girl:
Ava Grace * March 14, 2007 * 10:24 AM * 6 lbs, 0 oz * 18.5 inches

Lilypie 2nd Birthday Ticker

...A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they've got planes and trains and cars
I'd walk to you if I had no other way...


Our public adoption journal: [info]guatemama. Feel free to add it to your f-list if you're interested in following our journey to Ava. Edited on December 18, 2007: On December 14, 2007 (Ava's nine month "birthday"), we welcomed our beautiful daughter home and couldn't be happier as a family of four. We are beyond blessed. Worth the wait indeed. <3 [info]guatemama is no longer going to be updated as it's purpose was to document our journey, but you're welcome to check it out nonetheless. :)

Additionally, on December 31, 2005, I married my love. There aren't words perfect enough to describe how blessed I am, or how deeply I feel about him. He's my best friend, my partner in crime, my lover, and my soulmate. I am so lucky.

DaisypathNext Anniversary Ticker


*JOURNAL STATUS: currently "friends only" and staying that way. I'm generally not adding at this time, but there are always exceptions to every rule if you seriously rock. Things to know, though--I only use the lj cut for pictures and never for content, so you read at your own risk. Additionally, I don't use filters--not ever. I swear like a sailor. I sometimes get down and dirty--about life, sex, love, and rock 'n roll. And lastly, I don't buy into the "comment if you want to stay" posts. Keep me on your list or don't--that's at your discretion.*

Be forewarned, I love and abuse the following: =)
Don't say I didn't warn you.
I'm a very smiley girl.

      
Marriage is love.


"Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around..." - Vanilla Sky

(Formerly "julietsleeps" from 02.12.03 to 07.26.06, "playboy_mommy" from 07.26.06 to 03.15.07., and "stonefoxmomma" from 03.25.07 to 06.23.07. From 06.23.07 to 09.15.07, I was "courtney_ann", a name which produced nothing but lj email spam, so here you have it: I am [info]electrifyingirl. And it fits, according to my husband. ;-)


PLEASE NOTE:
I am a SAHM
who formula fed,
uses disposable diapers,
wholeheartedly supports vaccinations,
doesn't feed my baby strictly organic foods, etc.

Oh, and I had a c-section.

Don't like any of this? Don't support how I raise *my* child? Don't add me, then. There is strength in difference, but only if you're mature enough to see it. You raise your child, I'll raise mine. You support cloth diapering? Natural childbirth? Organic produce? Making your own baby food? You're a working mother? I support *you*. Those aren't my choices, but I'm not raising your child. I will never claim you're wrong due to the choices you make based on your intuition as a mother. Difference in opinion should not make either of us "unfit" or "bad" mothers. However, please be ::ahem:: enough of an adult to disagree while understanding the sisterhood of motherhood should be stronger than a difference of opinion.

I usually don't find this to be an issue, but it's pretty apparent that some people should stick to raising their cats and leave child rearing for people who are mature enough to accept difference in others. I'd feel terrible if I was so petty. How I could I be the one to teach my children values with such feeble moral character?

::smiles and steps off soapbox::

Dislikes:26: all seafood, animal cruelty, bugs, censorship, crazy activists, drama in general, dramatic exes, fish, george bush, guilt trips, harry potter, ho bags, homophobia, hot weather, live journal drama, mayo, misogyny, most people from high school, poor grammar, poor spelling, poor writing, prejudice, racism, salad dressings, shitty friends


I also dislike people who: are constant drama, judgmental mothers (as if you couldn't guess!), call themselves writers but can't manage to pen a simple thank you note, insist that only yuppies drink Starbucks, can't afford their babies but keep on poppin' 'em out anyway, think eating meat should be punishable by death (I'm a veg, but you'll never see me at a PETA rally), play the "poor me" card constantly on livejournal or in RL, talk during movies, drive like assholes, etc. Fuck me? No, fuck YOU.

Oh, and if you ever tell me that a "c-section isn't really giving birth, it's just surgery," I reserve the right to bitch slap you into next week. Seriously. <3

. . . . . . . . . .

I have a baking/cooking lj as well, and that can be found here: [info]pseudochef. It's also f-locked, so you'll need to give it the big add if you want in on the deliciousness...or lack there of. ;-)



Current mood theme featuring the work of Kurt Halsey, beautifully created by [info]shoegal_icons.

Blingo
Memories::8 entries
Pictures:over 10 public
Interests:150: *, a sorta fairytale, abre los ojos, academia, aidan, albino pumpkins, animal shelters, at my most beautiful, autumn, ava, babies r us, baby legs, baking, barack obama, beagles, beauty in the breakdown, being a mommy, biggestthickesteversky, black and whites, body modification, brew beagles dot org, burning.my.bridges.with.a.blowtorch, camus, chocolate martinis, christmas, closer, cloudy blue skies, co-sleeping, coca-cola polar bears, coldplay, completed completely, cousy, cystic fibrosis carrier testing, december 2005, democracy, ee cummings, eternalsunshineofthespotlessmind, every beautiful moment, existentialism, fargo, fate, firefighters and paramedics, flickr, forgetting and moving on, forgiving you, freezing that frame, freshly washed sheets, fuss, german shepards, gothic park, grammar, great strides, guatemala, having my hair brushed, health, heavy metal, hemingway, high heels, houseof1000corpses, indoor camping, infinity, ipod, itunes, jamaica, julietsleeps, kevin, kurt halsey, laughter, learning spanish, lilac blossoms, linguistics, lip gloss, literary criticism, literature, livejournal, love, lush cosmetics, lust, march 2007, marriage, may 2006, meows, milestones, milk chocolate, motherhood, muse, my daughter, my husband, my miracle, my son, myspace, naked dance parties, new years eve, nighttime birds, our house, pancakes, parenting, pedaling, photography, piercings, planning our family, poetry, postpartum weight loss, postsecret, pregnancy, pro-choice, rainn, reading, really big dogs, really deep thoughts, sangria, secretary, sensuality, sephora, sigur ros, similac, simulacra, slam poetry, slap it, smartwater, spell check, spending time with family, starbucks, starlight, sure that star, surprises, taking you home, tattoos, teaching college, tempur pedic, the beefy ribs, the first snowfall, the future, the marble, the picture people, thunderstorms, tofu, tori amos, trader joe's, vanilla sky, vanilla soy milk, vegetarian cooking, vegetarianism, veggie crisps, vintage anything and everything, writing, writing letters, you, ,
Schools:None listed
Friends:
People55:1smart1, 2pairsofjeans, _chloe_, _glittergirl, a_good_storm, aaroncynic, applesnoranges, babycatcher33, casket4mytears, chiria, choebe, daughtermoon, ditagirl, dogmaticus, electrifyingirl, faerieface, fourlipskissing, fullofwhispers, gavinzmommy, geogirl, guatemama, halocrime, immune, inoxia, itsjustsomegirl, jawnee, jes_m_r, jjack529, late_for_dinner, lemoncase, lulu29, lysithea, malanawk, mommybug, mywiferocks, novinha78, ourloverocks, piano_girl76, popchex, prismsentence, pseudochef, serpentskirts, skyes, songless_robin, songlessrobin, soulfire, sparklesnort, talula_fairie, thebluebells, tns1976, true_serenity, tsukinoko, typicalfemale, wires_and_lace, yourgypsy
Communities22:0nly_icons, 2007weightloss, badtattoos_4, caringconsumer, cesarean_birth, cheapvegan, chicagoveggie, cystic_fibrosis, isitveg, literarytattoos, may_15_2008, news, paidmembers, pink_cosmos, section_support, traderjoes, vegancooking, vegetarian, vegetariancooks, veggie_recipes, vegrecipes, vintagehair
Feeds5:postsecret, shapeofamother, thischickknits, undented, vegan_yumyum
Mutual Friends:54: 1smart1, 2pairsofjeans, _chloe_, _glittergirl, a_good_storm, aaroncynic, applesnoranges, casket4mytears, chiria, choebe, daughtermoon, ditagirl, dogmaticus, electrifyingirl, faerieface, fourlipskissing, fullofwhispers, gavinzmommy, geogirl, guatemama, halocrime, immune, inoxia, itsjustsomegirl, jawnee, jes_m_r, jjack529, late_for_dinner, lemoncase, lulu29, lysithea, malanawk, mommybug, mywiferocks, novinha78, ourloverocks, piano_girl76, popchex, prismsentence, pseudochef, serpentskirts, skyes, songless_robin, songlessrobin, soulfire, sparklesnort, talula_fairie, thebluebells, tns1976, true_serenity, tsukinoko, typicalfemale, wires_and_lace, yourgypsy
Account type:Paid Account

(more details...)


Create an Account
Forgot your login?
Login w/ OpenID
English • Español • Deutsch • Русский…